I think the high temp tapes are basically all the same (different colors,different temps). Here are a few suppliers of masking supplies and hooks.
www.shercon.com
www.mightyhook.com
www.springbokinc.com
As far as cleaning solvents most all pre-paint cleaners will work. I use Acetone. I believe, as long as it's not petroleum based and leaves a residue you should be o.k.